Majority of people go through a divorce without thinking of its impact on their children. They are too busy dealing with asset division to keep track of their children’s wellbeing. “They will be fine” is what everyone says.

But what people don’t realize is the fact that most children going through divorce grow up with some kind of an issue. Whether it is the lack of focus, social anxiety or depression, the chances are that they will develop one of these conditions as a result of their parent’s divorce. Here is how children are affected by the divorce process, and what you (as a parent) can do to prevent it.

The Stress

The number of the problem of every divorce is “stress over the roof”. Everyone involved will be so stressed out and on the verge of yelling and crying at the same time. Believe it or not, but most children whose parents are divorcing feel the same level of stress as their parents. Even though they may not show it at a time, their brains will absorb everything and it will later affect their mental health.

Children between 6 and 18 are the ones who suffer the most, as those younger than 6 have little to no knowledge of what is going on, and those above 18 are already old enough to understand what is going on. Our Divorce Attorneys in Salt Lake City advise you to talk to your children and try and explain to them what is going on, emphasizing the fact that they will always have two loving parents, no matter what happens.

In case of a divorce, contact our attorneys and seek legal representation. You are going to need it if you and your spouse cannot find common ground.

Psychological and Behavioral Problems

Divorces are known to cause chaos in children’s brains. Their whole worlds are turned upside down. After a divorce, many children lose contact with one of their parents (this is a result of bad parenting and even worse parenting schedule). This emptiness will be filled with anger and occasional rage. One thing leads to another, and the child will soon feel the emptiness and lack of love and affection from one parent. This may cause depression, and create additional psychological and behavioral problems. Don’t be surprised if your child separates from other children and spends most of his/her days behind the closed doors.

Painful Memories

If you do a great job as a parent, your children will somehow manage to get over your divorce. Instead of becoming psychologically injured, your children may become resilient and remain to be “just kids”. However, as they grow up, they may experience what scientists refer to as “painful memories”. The void created by divorce will still remain empty.

Growing up, a single song, perfume aroma or something other say may trigger the emotions in your child’s prefrontal cortex, causing him to feel depressed, sad and even angry.

To learn how to protect your children from the aftermath of your divorce, contact Salt Lake City Divorce Attorneys today, schedule your free initial consultation and do what is necessary for your children’s wellbeing.

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